tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3157077173425697905.post7414121058519489467..comments2024-01-20T01:16:06.485-07:00Comments on A Road Less Traveled: Questions...Jeremyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07785457966417796924noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3157077173425697905.post-20368955482125043822010-07-21T11:46:06.970-06:002010-07-21T11:46:06.970-06:00If you consider you're leaving your most prize...If you consider you're leaving your most prized "possessions" with them, I think it's ok to set the terms and be a little more generous in what I pay.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3157077173425697905.post-88551772305326901862010-07-20T09:24:15.728-06:002010-07-20T09:24:15.728-06:00I cried at Toy Story too. There's nothing qui...I cried at Toy Story too. There's nothing quite as tender as the loyalty of true friends. Soo glad you are one of mine:)PixieGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07028641305614879093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3157077173425697905.post-68735336128752019522010-07-17T16:42:08.741-06:002010-07-17T16:42:08.741-06:00#1 Fortunately I haven't had to pay for babysi...#1 Fortunately I haven't had to pay for babysitting otherwise we would always stay home. (Thanks to Mom!)<br /><br />#2 Of Course!<br /><br />#3 Love fruit with milk/cream - haven't tried the vanilla - will have to try that next.<br /><br />Miss you guys!!!irvyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12812099661654242456noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3157077173425697905.post-51924166049911650762010-07-17T16:31:39.889-06:002010-07-17T16:31:39.889-06:00For high school and college age sitters, I always ...For high school and college age sitters, I always felt that I had to make the wage I paid them somewhat competitive, as they could go out and get a minimum wage job, if they wanted to versus babysitting for peanuts.<br /><br />Now, I no longer know what minimum wage is (::ahem::), but I still say, if you find a sitter that cleans, take good care of your children and is available most times you need them...I would pay the MAXIMUM I could afford to keep her coming back.<br /><br />Lastly, if most of the kids are asleep for most of the night and the sitter just does homework, reads, texts friends, etc., then I wouldn't feel as though I needed to pay as much.<br /><br />Haven't seen Toy Story yet, but hear people (adults) are crying. That intrigues me. lol<br /><br />Sounds good (the berries and milk and sugar in the bowl). Hold the vanilla, please. Ya lost me there. haTerynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05612452246350073920noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3157077173425697905.post-57806529262946357962010-07-17T14:33:01.134-06:002010-07-17T14:33:01.134-06:00what is wrong with 50 cents an hr? ha ha OK, so ...what is wrong with 50 cents an hr? ha ha OK, so i am old--- the man at the post office told me i was old- of all the nerve. i think you should set the fee. I told our babysitters- i pay. . . and i would offer more if they did some housework. And, when i came home and the house was trashed and i heard horror stories the next day.. . we didn't use that sitter again!! christi- alex and his "cool" college age friends thought that Toy Story was totally made for their age, not for young kids!!!!! :) Last nite with dinner we had Yummy fresh corn, and also cold strawberries, blueberries, grapes and cantalope!!! i really thought i was in heaven aunt debbiAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3157077173425697905.post-46900015129410730322010-07-17T11:38:33.051-06:002010-07-17T11:38:33.051-06:00The sitter question is a good one - our answer is ...The sitter question is a good one - our answer is - that depends. We're usually in the $5 / hr range for the three littles - but if Marie is out and I get called in on a case and need urgent coverage generally there's a good tip involved! I agree however that the more kids the easier!<br /><br />Didn't see the movie yet - but you'll know the answer - we'll cry!<br /><br />And yeah - we do fruit for dinner once in a while too - in particular during the summer when you feel like something lighter in the evening!<br /><br />And ya'll have been some prolific posters lately - we'll try to get one up eventully!<br /><br />love and hugs - aus and co.Aushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02740211277947404999noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3157077173425697905.post-2277310342904977552010-07-17T09:33:04.913-06:002010-07-17T09:33:04.913-06:001. I think ALL things need to be taken into accou...1. I think ALL things need to be taken into account. For example I pay our babysitters $6/hr and round up when say they babysit for 3 hrs I pay $20--especially if they clean or make an extra effort with the kids. However, if they babysit in the evening and the kids sleep 2 of the 3 hrs I don't pay quite as much. Unless they CLEAN! :-) a few weeks ago after putting the kids to bed my 11 yr old babysitter proceeded to load/run the dishwasher, clean out my microwave, vacuum, sweep, put ALL toys away, etc. And last time when I came home they were all sitting at the kitchen table making up a story about the "3 little cowboys" with illustrations and everything. Oh she is wonderful. If I had older kids I def. would NOT pay $2/hr for them--I would say $6/hr is plenty for your family.<br />2. Didn't cry but know plenty of moms who did!!!!!<br />3. Sounds good, but the milk part surprises me--for some reason I can't picture you eating that! I think just a bowl of fruit w/no milk sounds better!Lesliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00312560730962269292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3157077173425697905.post-91153726528923416392010-07-17T09:29:22.589-06:002010-07-17T09:29:22.589-06:00We really have been lacking on going out but if we...We really have been lacking on going out but if we did I would pay a set price not per pound! <br /><br />I cried 3 times in that movie! I loved it!!! <br /><br />No but I am going to try it. I have done sliced tomato butter salt and pepper on toast...The Babetshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03147840372824652879noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3157077173425697905.post-554491325029172382010-07-17T06:43:30.526-06:002010-07-17T06:43:30.526-06:00When we paid for a sitter, we paid $1 per hour per...When we paid for a sitter, we paid $1 per hour per child, until #6 came along we left it at $5/hr. By that time the older kids were helping a lot. For our *favorite* sitters, we would buy them a gift for their b-days or Christmas thanking them for being so good with the kids. Jessica babysits and gets super excited when she earns $5/hr. She doesn't "charge" a certain amount - just accepts what she is given and is grateful for any amount she gets.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02215655513561849426noreply@blogger.com