Friday, August 20, 2010

Caribbean continued... otherwise entitled "The Longest Post Ever"

Dear Jeremy,

You asked me to take over writing about the rest of our trip. I hope it’s ok that I’m doing it in letters. I’m just kind of in the mood.

Love,
Your honey

P.S. You need to get that Harley out of your sweet little head.


Dear Teresa,

When we came into your store to get the alterations done for Graci’s dress, Grace couldn’t keep her eyes off the sparkling tiaras. You must have noticed because you brought Graci one that had been slightly broken and told her that we could take it to a jeweler to get fixed and she could have it! I thought it was so sweet of you, but didn’t realize until later that it was a $250 tiara! WOW. That was so extremely generous of you. You should know that when we took it to get fixed and they heard Graci’s story that they did it for free. People are so good. I also want you to know that Graci LOVED wearing it, and it set off her dress perfectly. The night that she wore it to dinner, I heard more than one little girl exclaim, “Look, it’s another princess!”

Love,
A grateful mom



Dear Snow White,

We are convinced you are the real thing! Your voice, your charm, your mannerisms—you were perfect! And we found it very “princessy” that you would take time to visit the kid’s club and teach the children to do-si-do. Jessica especially loved that. And you are now Xander’s #1 top favorite princess—pretty cool!

Love,
A family who adores you












Dear Tiana,

You are my Graci’s new favorite princess. Thank you for taking so much time to talk to her. Thank-you for remembering her each time she came back to see you. You will be happy to know that she now has a porcelin replica of you sitting on her dresser (from her sweet Daddy). (:

Love,
Someone who needs to go out and see your movie





Dear Cinderella,

I am so sorry that Xander experienced stage fright and couldn’t make himself get down on one knee. It would have been a perfect photo-op, but I still think the one we got was pretty darn cute.

Love,
The mother of a prince





Dear Belle,

You are beautiful! We loved hearing you sing in the musical. I want your dress.

Love,
A princess wannabe






Dear Nassau,

I would love to spend a week getting to know you a bit better. As it is, I fell in love with your charm and beauty. Loved your people. Loved your beaches. Didn’t love your heat and humidity. (Just look what happened when we pulled the camera out of the bag!) I definitely want to visit you again, but next time I’ll try to come when it’s a bit cooler.

Love,
A fan







Dear Atlantis Aquarium,

Thank-you for giving us a discount upon finding out we were a Make-a-Wish family! We LOVED visiting you! We were fascinated with the variety of fish and sea creatures on display. We will definitely send friends and family your way!

Love,
A happy family






















Dear Sawtooth shark,

I can’t decide if I think you are beautiful or one of the ugliest creatures ever. You fascinated me and my children. Are you for real?

Love,
Can’t decide if I’m a fan


Dear readers,

You are about to see approximately 5,000 pictures of us parasailing. Just so you know, it was every bit as cool as it looks. You should definitely include it on your list of things to do someday. It only cost (gulp) $420 for the seven of us to go. Thank-you, Make-a-Wish, for giving us an allowance that allowed us to do it! This will go down as one of our favorite family memories ever. We absolutely loved every second of it.

Love,
The newest parasailing fans!



































Dear Toy Story, The Musical,

WOW, WOW, WOW! We were in AWE the entire show! The costumes, the special effects, the music—it was every bit on par with Broadway. Jeremy and I kept exchanging looks of amazement throughout the production and our kids were riveted. I am uber-impressed!

Love,
A girl in love









Dear Alex,

I think you are my favorite person from the trip. I don’t know that I have ever met a sweeter and more humble man. Your smile and gracious ways just made our day. Thank you for cleaning up all of our messes each day, preparing our beds each night, leaving us fun “animals” and chocolates. and for being attentive to our every need. We both so wish we had taken a picture with you.

Love,
Jeremy and Christianne


Dear Disney,

WE LOVE YOU! We love everything Disney! You plan out everything to the very last detail and somehow manage to make every minute magical. You are the best ever!

Love,
A Disney family



Dear Castaway Cay,

You are paradise! What other place on earth can you snorkel, ride bikes, eat all the food you want, go on waterslides into the ocean, have a dance party with Stitch, and leave the little ones to play in their own private “club” making sandcastles and going on treasure hunts while you enjoy relaxing on a beautiful beach?

Love,
A girl who could go there every day



(Again, what the humidity does to the camera!)






Dear Colin,

Thank you for everything you did to make Graci feel special throughout the cruise. From the plates of treats left on her pillow to the special notes on her door each day to arranging a special “party” just for Make-a-Wish families to meet with Captain Mickey, to giving us snorkel and tube equipment for FREE, you went above and beyond in making our wish girl feel special.

Love,
Two grateful parents




Dear cast and crew of “Dreams,”

This was one of the most amazing productions ever. We loved every single second. You had both of us in tears thinking of our Graci’s dream coming true and also of all the children out there who aren’t as fortunate. The show was fantastic on every level. I just wish that every child in the world was able to be there.

Love,
Parents of kids who love to dream




Dear Violeta and Andy,

You were the best. Thank-you for paying attention to every detail and making each of us feel special and important. We loved your magic tricks and your accents and the way you didn’t even blink when Taylor would order THREE entrees at once. You were super cool.

Love,
Table 28






Dear Pirate Deck Party,

I’m not sure why you kept zoning in on OUR children and OUR family and putting our images up on the big screen, but it sure made the kids happy!! They loved watching themselves dance and smile and they loved seeing all of the characters in their pirate gear. We also thought it pretty sweet that you served another ENTIRE dinner just three hours after eating our FIRST dinner. Awesome. Jeremy was especially thrilled to find turkey legs (his favorite part about Disneyland) and I loved the warm crepes with ice-cream and topping—yummy! You put on a great party!

Love,
The fam




















Dear Jesi and Xander,

You were SO MUCH FUN to have on this trip! I loved watching the wonder in your eyes as you saw and experienced things for the first time. I loved that you dared to go parasailing, I loved watching you in the ocean, I loved seeing your faces as you met your favorite characters, I loved the looks on your faces when we said “yes” to almost anything you wanted to do or see or eat! I loved that you were confident enough to walk into the kids club and not look back, and I loved spying on you and watching you enjoy the amazing activities they had planned for you. I love that you are such dear friends. I love YOU!

Love,
Mommy





Dear Parker and Taylor,

I LOVED watching you enjoy your independence throughout the cruise. From watching movies on the main deck while enjoying the swimming pool to having fun at the arcades to playing in the oceaneer lab to ordering room service after midnight—you two really played it up! I am glad that we are able to trust you and that you had so much fun making your own decisions about what to do and where to hang out. I hope you thoroughly enjoyed not having a curfew for a few days, because it will be awhile before that happens again! I’m so glad you are such good friends and made so many great memories together.

Love,
Mom



Dear Deck 4,

Because of you, we discovered a new family favorite-- shuffleboard! I am now convinced that if we ever are able to build a new home, it must have a long enough deck to accommodate this game! We loved the views as we played and we loved staring off at the beautiful sunsets. We're so glad not many families discovered your charm!

Love,
the Greens



Dear self,

In the future, try not to get in any pictures right after you have gone swimming. Unless you remember to wear waterproof mascara. Also, just because all of the food was free didn't mean you needed to eat all of it.

Love,
The voice of reason








Dear cruise packages everywhere,

Don’t you feel just a bit like you’re cheating when you call it a “five day cruise” but require that everyone be off the ship by 9:00 a.m. on the fifth “day?” I’m just sayin’…

Love,
A girl who didn’t want to leave



Dear Gatorland,

When we found ourselves at the airport with several hours to spare before our flight home, we decided to pay you a visit. We were thrilled upon arriving to find that Make-a-Wish families get in free. Thank-you!! Just thinking about you now makes me smile. You were a cross between a small-town county fair (minus the rides) and a zoo (minus almost all of the animals). We loved watching the alligators “jump” for food. We loved seeing the white alligators and found them quite beautiful. We loved people watching. We loved the rootbeer floats. We loved leaving. (Did I just say that?)

Love,
Gator fans

P.S. To be fair, I think we would have loved leaving less if it hadn’t felt like 110 degrees outside and if we wouldn’t have been exhausted from the few hours of sleep we had gotten on the last night of the cruise. And I think everyone should have the chance to visit Gatorland. Once.




Dear Gator wrestler,

You are OUT OF YOUR MIND.

Love,
Someone who tries to stay away from large teeth




Dear Mom and Dad,

Words can never express our gratitude for your willingness to watch Elli. Though we missed her, we were soooooooo glad that we didn’t bring her along. She would not have enjoyed the cruise, and we would have enjoyed it 1,000 x less if she had been there. You are amazing and we love you!

Love,
All of us



Dear Kent and Terri,

How sweet of you to be there with a sign to welcome us home at the airport! We had no idea that you would be there, but should have—knowing how thoughtful you have been through this whole process. Once again, thank-you for EVERYTHING. It truly was magic. We are so so grateful.

Love,
Our family


Dear Graci,

Oh how I love you! I hope that the Disney Cruise was everything you ever dreamed of. I loved watching you throughout the trip. I loved watching you with the princesses, and I hope you know that you are the prettiest one of all! I loved seeing your face each time something special happened just for you. I loved that you were so enamoured with the characters and that you would spend so much of your time taking pictures with them. I loved giving you the freedom to do almost anything you wanted over the course of the cruise. I loved shopping with you. I loved seeing your fuzzy pants and sandals under your “poofy dress” as you walked down the stairs. I love you so much, my sweet Graci. I am so grateful for the memories you have made and for the magic you experienced. I hope you will always remember that it is because YOU ARE LOVED by so many people.

Love,
Mom



And finally, Dear Elli,

It was SO GOOD to see you again!!

Love,
Us

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Off to the Caribbean!

Where to start? We have so much to blog about right now. From our beach trip to Graci’s girl’s camp experience to the cruise we’ve got about 1000 pictures we could share! I guess I’ll start with the most recent adventure: Graci’s Make-a-Wish Cruise.

Wonderful. Amazing. Relaxing. Incredible. Awesome. Magical. Unbelievable. Beautiful. These are just a few of the glowing adjectives I could use to write about our experience this last week. Thank you, Thank you, THANK YOU, Make-a-Wish, for this special opportunity. At one point during the trip I looked at Christi and said: “I feel guilty that this is all being provided for us free of charge.” Christi responded by saying, “Kent (one of Graci’s wish grantors) said that if we feel guilty he has not done his job.” What wonderful people. What a wonderful organization. As I thought more about it, I was able to see that this trip wasn’t about me -- it was about Graci. And it has been such an uplifting experience for her. The more I thought about that, the more I realized that I didn’t need to feel guilty. This has blessed Graci’s life in amazing ways.

The first day of our trip we flew from Salt Lake to Orlando (non-stop, I might add – a big plus for a BIG family). We had reservations for the Hyatt hotel at the Orlando airport. We had pictured taking a shuttle bus from the airport to the nearby hotel. But when they call this the airport Hyatt, they mean AT the airport. We literally walked 30 feet out of the secure area, went up an escalator and checked in☺. Very relaxing! We walked around the airport and found a Harley Davidson and some Disney characters we could pose with. (I keep trying to convince Christi to put a Harley Davidson in our garage for me to pose with, but no luck so far☹.)









The next day the magic really began. We caught the Disney shuttle from the airport to Port Canaveral, where the ship was docked. During the 45-minute ride, a video played that gave us a preview of what to expect during our cruise. You can see that the kids were quite delighted with what they saw.




At the port, we got to take a picture with Minnie Mouse in front of a replica of the Disney Wonder (the name of our cruise ship).





As we walked on the ship, there was an announcer that said over the loudspeakers, “Welcome Green family to the Disney Wonder.” We went to deck 9 to eat lunch. This was our first experience with the all-you-can-eat smorgasbord that is cruise dining. (You don’t even want to know how many pounds I gained in those 4 days!!!) After lunch we found our way to our staterooms and Graci’s first Make-a-Wish surprise. In her room, she found “Captain Mickey.”

As you see more of our pictures, you will notice that she did not put Mickey down pretty much the entire trip.

That day we went swimming, saw the Disney characters put on a “sail-away” show, introduced the children to the “kids club” and the arcade and basically had a great time.













Dinner that night was in Parrot Cay, a restaurant with a tropical atmosphere. They do a really fun thing for the dinners each night. Each family rotates through three different restaurants, one per night, but your servers rotate with you, so you have the same servers each night. Our servers were Violetta and Andy. They were great, and they got to know us quite well. They knew what drinks each of us liked. They knew I liked seafood and Christi liked her meat well done. They figured out that Parker can be dangerous around glass cups, so they gave him plastic ones☺. It is a fun way to enjoy your meals.









We were just getting settled in, but we already had a feel for what a great trip this would be. Christi and I loved that we could check the little kids into kids club and then take a moonlit walk around the top deck. The littles loved kids club (most of the time☺). And the older kids loved the independence of it all. They were able to check in and out of kids club on their own, visit the arcade or go swimming while watching a Disney movie on the giant outdoor video screen. We all loved it.

I’m still catching up on the sleep I missed while enjoying all the ship had to offer, so I’m going to quit for now. We are truly blessed!

Jeremy

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Dressy Jesi!

Our darling Jessica turned SEVEN last week! My favorite part of the day was Taylor repeating over and over, “Why does she keep growing up? Where’s our little Jessica?”

Jesi is funny, sweet, dramatic, smart, thoughtful, imaginative, beautiful, and perfect in every way. Oh how we love her!! Words cannot describe what she does to our hearts!

One of Jessica’s favorite things to do is to dress-up. I’ve put together a slide-show of some of my favorite "outfits" of hers over the years. It’ll be too long for anyone but her grandmas, but I couldn’t resist putting in so many pictures—she just makes me happy!

Love you, dress-up queen! Happy 7th birthday!!!

PS. Sometimes the boys get coerced into joining in the dress-up fun. I just had to sneak in a couple of those too. We’ll see how long they last before the boys come to read the blog and make me take them off! (:

-Christianne

Saturday, August 7, 2010

Let It Shine

OK. Christi and I have spent several hours trying to get this to work, and I guess it's just not meant to be. But this video is so hilarious, I just had to keep it on here. We used photobooth (on our mac) to video Elli singing This Little Light of Mine. It turned out perfectly! But then when we tried to upload it to youtube or our blog, it didn't work right. The audio plays at the correct speed, but the video plays too quickly. We got different results with different ways of doing things, but the funniest is what you see below. The 2:04 video plays in 25 seconds:) Elli can get pretty animated in real time, but when you speed it up...well, you'll see! Enjoy:)

Jer



UPDATE: I think we finally found a way to make it work! Click on the link below...

http://christi405.fileave.com/Movie%20on%202010-08-07%20at%2017.25.mov

Friday, August 6, 2010

Clarification

I guess I wasn't quite clear enough in my last entry. What came on Graci's birthday was the actual pre-approval for us to get Dang Qing Yin. Yay!!!

Jer

Thursday, August 5, 2010

Gift for Graci

So you probably read in Christi's last post about Heavenly Father's gift for Graci. Graci knows about it now, so Christi said I can let you all in on the secret...:)

A couple of months ago, Graci heard a speaker in church talk about the importance of daily scripture study. On her own, Graci decided to do something about it in her own life. She made a promise to Heavenly Father that she would read every day, no matter what. She promised to read at least 5 minutes, and she has been true to that promise. Some nights she has forgotten until she climbed into bed, but even then she has said, "Oops! I need to read!" Then she will stay up an extra 5 minutes to read the word of the Lord. Christi and I knew about her promise, but what we didn't know until last week was that she had made a "deal" with Heavenly Father. She had promised to read 5 minutes in the scriptures every day if He would do something for her. A very specific thing. Something our whole family wanted, but that we could do nothing about (besides pray ourselves).

This special something could have happened anytime over the last 2-3 months or during the coming month, but it didn't. It happened yesterday: August 4, 2010. It happened on Graci's birthday. I have no doubt that He carefully orchestrated the timing to let one of His cherished daughters know just how much He loved her. So what was this big, crazy, wonderful, magical something? A picture is indeed worth a thousand words, so here you go:



Several months ago Christi found little Dang Qing Yin's profile on CCAI's waiting children list. With those haunting, beautiful, plaintive eyes, she absolutely cried out to us. At first we just looked at her and hoped she would someday find her forever family. We prayed that the right family would find her profile and fall in love with her as we had. We could just see the joy she would bring to a family somewhere. We were already enamored with our little Lexi:

We are so excited to bring Lexi home. We love her so much and can't wait until the fall when we can go and get her. But with Lexi already on the way, there was no possibility of bringing Dang Qing Yin into our family. Certainly not right now. Until the day it hit us: Why Not??? Here is a beautiful daughter of our Father in Heaven. A beautiful daughter, born without arms, and therefore somewhat harder to be placed in an adoptive home. A beautiful daughter with a spirit so strong and good that she could make an impact on us through a picture and half way around the world! A little angel waiting to bless someone's home in unimaginable ways. And then we knew.

First we decided we needed to talk to our children. This is a big decision. One that will certainly impact each of them. They had seen Qing Yin's picture. They had asked us if we were thinking about adopting her. At that time we had not been, so we honestly answered that we were not going to adopt her, but had fallen in love with her anyway. The kids were similarly smitten with her, but given our comments, they did not even consider having her as a little sister. Once Christi and I found out it was right for us to adopt her, we talked to each of the children. All of the kids were won over quite quickly. Although they (and we) had concerns (eg. our bedrooms aren't quite as big as you'd like them to be for 3 kids, we'll need a bigger kitchen table, etc.), each one of our kids was excited to adopt this precious little child. Xander, of course, did his hyper little crazy thing and was excited that there will be even MORE family for our family! Taylor was mature enough to say, "If Heavenly Father says it's right, then let's do it!" Parker and Jesi both think she's the cutest little thing they've ever seen. Elli can be convinced to answer "yes please" if you phrase your questions right, so we think she's on board. But Graci. Graci. Graci was the most excited of all. She loves babies. And although Qing Yin is almost 2, she will be close enough to babyhood that Graci will have her appetite for mothering fulfilled.

We contacted CCAI. They told us it was possible, but not for sure, that China would let us bring both girls home in the fall. They promised to do all they could to make it happen. Not once did they hint at being skeptical of our decision. They were so happy for us and for Dang Qing Yin. What a blessing it has been for us to have CCAI at our sides through most of our adoptions! We all prayed and prayed that Heaven would pour out blessings on us. That China would give us permission and that we would be able to bring this little angel home. We waited and waited for "the phone call." Graci was the most consistent with her prayers. She really wanted little Qing Yin in our family. And eventually, she made the "deal" with Heavenly Father. And He, in His infinite wisdom, has kept up His end of the bargain in grand fashion.

I am grateful today for so many reasons. I am unbelievably grateful for my sweet wife, who is the key to all of this. She gives so much of herself to our family. She sacrifices so much. Without her, I would be lost. I would not be half the man I am today. She did indeed take a "wicked young man and reform him." Thank you, sweetheart! I am grateful for all of my current children. Without my amazing Taylor and Parker, we would not have been able to grow our family as we have. Jesi brings incredible joy to me and to everyone she meets. Xander is as adorable as he can be. I learn more and more from Elli as time goes by. There is a great little person locked up in there. I look forward immensely to the day I get to know her. To REALLY know and understand my sweet Elli Mei. I am grateful for little Lexi. Her sweet videos are adorable. She will also bring great blessings to our family. But today I am especially grateful for Heavenly Father's answers to the prayers of two special girls. Graci's prayers for a little sister and Qing Yin's prayers (albeit unuttered) for a forever family. It is a great privilege to have stewardship over these sweet children for a short time. Life is good. WE ARE SO EXCITED!!!!!!!!!!! This little girl has captured and will continue to keep a very special place in our hearts.

Jer

P.S. We have the cutest video of Qing Yin eating crackers with her toes and playing with toys the same way. Adorable! We will post the video soon.

P.P.S. We haven't decided for sure on an American name for Qing Yin yet. We are down to two choices. I'll share them with you on one condition: you promise not to offer any comments about which name you like best. Promise? OK. It's either Sophia and we call her Sophi, or Olivia and we call her Livi. Aren't they cute? (You can only comment on that question with an answer to the affirmative:)

P.P.P.S. Did I tell you we are SO SO SO SO EXCITED? :):):):)